2021.12.06 21:36 G2quickgeorg Hotwheels tree - additions
2021.12.06 21:36 funkylowvolume Being a butt-muncher in 2021 is probably a redeeming trait
2021.12.06 21:36 humansofsanquentin Guillermo, 31 | Incarcerated: 10 years
Housed: Avenal State Prison
“Nobody wants to be with somebody in prison, son.” “Do you think someone out there, on the streets, will be loyal to someone in here?” “Who would want to waste their time messing with a prisoner?” I’ve heard all the negativity. All the noise and hostility from family, friends, correctional officers, other inmates. The toxicity coupled with the drama of incarceration, is overwhelming and suffocating. I understand the prejudices, but are we discarded as lepers now? Am I eternally scum because I have an inmate number to identify me behind enemy lines? Is all the good that I do wasted because I am incarcerated?
My father tells me that a relationship with an inmate isn’t one at all, because I am in here and they are out there, “You can’t touch them, so how can you even be together?” My mother tells me that “Anyone who wants to be with someone in prison has mental issues.” I remember a visit I had with my mom and grandma years back. a woman came to visit her boyfriend/husband and she was dressed to the 9s. My mom scoffed and said “Who would want to drive up here to visit an inmate?” I sat there, angered and hurt. Because we’re having this talk in a prison visiting room. My mother and grandmother were there for me from county jail to court to every prison I've been at; I know they love and support me. But their views regarding ‘inmates’ mimics that of society. Even as I write this I feel like I'm bringing a dark cloud, but this is the truth. Many of us are forced to sit with...or is it?
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2021.12.06 21:36 throwawaycat3000 My (23f) Fiance (35M) Says "All events are neutral" when I tell him I don't like a joke he makes
I don't get my there's so much drama over something seemingly so small but I can't get a therapy session any time soon and I'm at my wits end so here we go
I hate it when people do the sarcastic "Mhmm" when I explain myself. It makes me feel condescended on and like I'm being taken as a joke even though I know and give the benefit of the doubt that they mean it as harmless.
I let my fiance know this multiple times but I feel as of he doesn't care. I stopped engaging with a coworker as much as I could because he felt he was being flirty, I'm trying to stop saying 'goddamn' because he considers it one of the only real swears (were cooks so we swear like sailors) and I always try to apologize after I accidentally say it and make it clear that there's a conscious effort to stop.
I do not see any of that with this stupid "mhmm" thing. I don't even understand it as a joke most of the time. Sure if I'm already joking I'll laugh, maybe he'll laugh but most of the time it's barely a joke.
I bring up today that I'm hesitant to explain things now because I know I'll just get the "mhmm". He knows I have trouble explaining myself already because my dad growing up would not have any of it, and would threaten me for doing things related to the form of OCD I have. All that happened was him going into a long spiel about how "all events are neutral" and "you're choosing to be offended" or "I can't curate your emotions" and "if you want me to stop then there's obviously a limit (?) And we can't joke anymore"
Hes referring to a joke I made with his friend that I realized was offensive and apologized and stopped my behavior immediately.
I just always feel like I would be the perfect wife if only I would both be able to voice my opinion but also never disagree with anything he says or does.
Any advice? Do you understand the "all events are neutral" thing better than I do? Please help 🆘
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2021.12.06 21:36 SnooMuffins8839 Tomorrow marks the 52nd anniversary for frosty the snowman!
2021.12.06 21:36 terrycotta Looking for Original Christmas music?
2021.12.06 21:36 ninthstargod "Truly Scrumptious!" A 600+ piece vintage Challenger puzzle made by NORDEVCO. An apparently very short lived puzzle series that had boxes in the style of Springbok & Eaton.
2021.12.06 21:36 davdeluxe126 Obsidian Phoenix | 339M GP | 23 ⭐️/ 32 ⭐️ TB | 15+ KAM shards and live KAM coaching | Looking for 2 players before TB!
2021.12.06 21:36 SettingFinancial Uncensored Music Video
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2021.12.06 21:36 joaquinbear Changers: A Dance Film
2021.12.06 21:36 ADegeneratepassingby account hacked, emailed genshin cs, waited for 20 working days (1 month), now it's 25 working days (for me)
2021.12.06 21:36 LarryLovestein824 Staples vs Crypto
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2021.12.06 21:36 Foreskin_slayer What is this American obsession
As a European I don’t understand why do most (from what I’ve seen) white Americans so desperately try to pretend that they are not white? I mean, you see it everywhere, articles, videos, social media posts, essentially the whole internet. They ask a white person what race they are and they all go like I’m native, or I’m black, or I’m Asian, or I’m Arabic… They all claim to be "a person of Color" even though they probably did a test at ancestry.com and the results came like 98% European and 1,5 something else. Do they feel ashamed for being white?
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2021.12.06 21:36 Hunter42100 Nice.
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2021.12.06 21:36 BryanTheBeeIsSilent Christmas in Hell
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2021.12.06 21:36 I-have-no-preference Wonky drawer on the left there..
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2021.12.06 21:36 tbandtg So my hive thermostat is dumber than a box of rocks now.
I thought they were just going to stop selling them here not totally disconnect them from the interwebs WTF. I can not afford a new 200 dollar thermostat.
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2021.12.06 21:36 ThePlotinusThickens I don't have a social life and I want one.
I'm 24, and I haven't spent time with a friend for three and a half years. I haven't had a friend who I've seen regularly for four and a half years. I wasted my childhood and my adolescence in depression and always struggled socially. I wasted my young adult and college years high and in psychosis. Now, I'm the healthiest I've ever been. I want friends. I want a story beyond rotting away in my parents' house staring at the white walls of my room. I have the money and income to move out, but I don't know where yet.
What should I do? I'm starting really low here. My conversation skills leave a lot to be desired, and I still struggle with basic things like voice volume and speaking clearly, not knowing what to say and not responding quickly enough.
I've also never felt connected with my generation. I've literally never made a social media account with my face on it. Should I start using social media? I don't even browse it. It's partly due to the fact that I have boomer-age parents who didn't get Internet access until 2013, and I didn't get a phone until 2016, in the last semester of high school. I don't seem to have the same cultural knowledge base that people my age (and younger) seem to have. I was always so envious of my peers for having Internet access and being so connected to the world and chose not to associate with them to satisfy a delusional superiority/inferiority complex.
Should I try dating apps? What would women think about a guy with zero friends, little to no social history, and nothing happening in his life?
How weird is it to approach a random stranger and just try talking to them? Can I do this at a convention or something?
If I was already years behind when I was 16, just how behind am I now? How long will it take for me to be socially successful? Is it even possible at this point (this is really for me to figure out)?
As you can see, when it comes to socializing, my mind is currently all questions and no answers. I'd deeply appreciate any advice, even if it's not directly related to socialization.
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2021.12.06 21:36 Crossbreed8714 Best Mod Load Order For Maids (XBone)
Hiya! So, I completely suck at nodding or making a good mod load order, so I was wondering if someone could either make a load order for me, or help me make a decent load order with the Maids 2 mod. Thank you in advance.
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2021.12.06 21:36 GearsOfKev 27 [M4F] NJ/US/Canada - Giant teddy bear's application to be someone's new boyfriend 🧸
Hiya! My name is Kevin and I'm 27 years old living in New Jersey. I'm going to put everything in bullet points to make it easier to read, rather than a long wall of text. :)
• I'm 6' tall, on the chonkier side but I'm working on losing the weight, working on joining a gym and seeing a nutritionist. I also have a beard, blue eyes, glasses and a shaved head.
• I have bipolar 1, but I've been stable for several years and I plan on keeping it that way. I'm working very hard on trying to give myself a good, happy and healthy life. I also have ADHD so I tend to be distracted easily and have difficulties focusing but I do try my best to focus.
• As mentioned, I'm a giant teddy bear. I'm very affectionate and cuddly. I am also very supportive and empathetic and emotionally available.
• My love language is Quality Time followed by Words of Affirmation. Helping cheer up my partner and spending time with them, be it a Target run or just a night in watching TV is very special to me.
• My biggest hobby is gaming, I have an Xbox One X, Switch and PC that I currently play on. Right now I've been addicted to Battlefield 2042 despite all the backlash. I also go out on random drives, getting lost then finding my way back. My favorite seasons are Winter and Autumn. I find beauty in the bleakness of Winter and the colors of Autumn. My favorite genre of music is metal, with my favorite bands currently being Knocked Loose and Gojira.
• For work I am a school custodian. I enjoy what I do but I am also looking to get certified in IT and looking for a job in that field, changing careers. Time zones don't matter to me since work made me a night person.
2021.12.06 21:36 pbodesigns Navigating The Battlefield of Life (Excerpts from The Bhagavad Gita and other Texts)
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2021.12.06 21:36 anzu68 I should have done better and I'm sorry
I lost many of you after 2016. I wish I'd seen a therapist that day I realized I might have trauma. I wish I'd not listened when H told me not to worry. Maybe then the coldness wouldn't have happened. The random lies. The darkness. Maybe then I'd not have lost my ability to bond with others. I have become a shell. A fragment of who I once was. My light has dimmed. I'm trying to rekindle it, pick up the broken pieces, to be myself again. But I don't know if I truly can. I do intend to try though since none of you ever deserved all this. I wish I could apologize to you sincerely in person, and grant you all some closure. I wish I had been a better man.
I've made a few new friends. I'm close to one other person IRL. I'm in therapy and I've become a lot more stable and slowly I've regained my light and kindness. Maybe one day I'll be whole again and a good person once more. Perhaps one day I can make it up to you all. I'm very sorry. About everything. You all deserved better. I never meant to hurt you and I wish I never did. Especially you, S.
(Posting this here because I can never send this even though I wish I could).
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2021.12.06 21:36 Illustrious-Piano-95 Beaked Salmon (T5) Stats will be in comments shortly.
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2021.12.06 21:36 Nergal971 Camioness Kaiser
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